Christian personals service primer cont.
Whether Christian personals service dating online or off everyone has their own unique
shopping list of preferences that they are looking for in a companion. The
criteria are almost boundless. Men may be looking for a demure woman or a woman
with a good sense of humor or brown hair. Most of these traits are things which
we cannot control such as eye color, height etc. Women will not be able to
appeal to all of the men all of the time, but you can appeal to many of the men
much of the time!
You probably know someone who was looking for a certain type,
but finally settled down with someone who supposedly was not his or her cup of
tea in the beginning, right? The fact is that we all make concessions on our
shopping lists. Most traits are negotiable, they are secondary, but some traits
are not negotiable and are universal among men seeking a mate. These universal
qualities are so crucial that they override all other traits on a manís
shopping list. Men do not know what it is intellectually that they need, but
they do know intuitively. These universal traits are powerful!
Do you recall the cons who steal womenís hearts? (Sort of
like the fellow below) They have
mastered the art of projecting these universal traits which women need but are
not cognizant of. Hopefully you will be dealing with Christian singles
and not cons, but wolves do sometimes come in sheep's clothing. We'll be
covering what exactly to watch for to spot a con later.
YOU CAN BE THEIR CUP OF TEA!
Your mate may not have gotten what he thought he wanted on
his shopping list when he chose you. But because you appealed to his deepest
needs he will not regret his decision in choosing you instead of the blonde or
Do you recall reading the old proverb before you clicked on
to this page?
ďA manís strength is his charm ,just as a womanís charm
is her strength.Ē-Havelock Ellis
A womanís charm (or virtue) is her strength. Think on this statement
just a moment, this is your first clue to the first of the five universal traits
which a man intuitively seeks out in a mate. Gold diggers project this trait and
many men fall for it because unfortunately in todayís culture charm (or grace)
has been redefined by many to mean false beauty. This is to stand the truth on
ďBeauty without grace is the hook without the bait.Ē -
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Charm can only come from within, it does not come from beauty
or wit or even fine clothing. Itís fruits are goodness, humility, kindness,
and wisdom. I donít want to ruin anyoneís book sales on ten reasons why
honesty and humility are passť in these modern times, but they are crucial in
areas of romance and relationships. If you think that it does not take a strong
woman to practice these then you probably have never tried them on for size.
All men whether "Christian singles" or not are looking for virtue in their mate.
lies loyalty. Ladies if you falter on any area of virtue they will intuitively
question your loyalty to them and the family. They need to feel secure in their
relationship, they need assurance to build upon. Men donít sit around and
figure these things out like I just outlined; they know these things in their
gut, they may not be emotional beings, but they know. I hope you are beginning
to catch my drift that men and women understand each other very well, we need to
acknowledge that fact.
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