Christian personals service primer
THE FIVE LEVELS OF COMMUNICATION
5. Needs- This is the promise
level, since it is here we have arrived at the place where the
relationship is solidified and promises great hope and rewards for the
future. These needs are your own individual requirements. This the most
extraordinary level any two people can share.
In our continued example dialoge;
John: Now that my brother is married, I’m reminded
that something is missing between you and me. Susan, Will you marry me?
Susan: Oh John, yes!
Other examples of level five; I want to have
Let’s review the five levels of communication one
Feelings- The bond maker.
Needs- The promise.
When you get past the third level the risks are great,
but not so great as the rewards. Depending upon your personality type you
may climb the ladder of the five levels to suit yourself. This climb
automatically achieves greater intimacy, but remember not to threaten the
other person’s “emotional bubble.” You may experiment, however there
seems to be a speed limit and you’ll know if you exceed that limit.
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